“Sometimes your whole life boils down to one insane move.” Jake Sully says in the movie Avatar, when he reaches a crossroads. He’s deciding whether he wants to continue believing the lies he’s been told – that the natives are in the way and need to be pushed off their land in the name of progress – or if he wants to join the natives in their fight against the military.
He chooses to fight – even though it seems like a hopeless battle.
There’s power in making that one insane move toward your dreams.
Sometimes that big move is talking to someone else and brainstorming ideas, or in developing a creative relationship that brings big results.
I was reminded of this recently when another writer friend, Lori Buckle, told me of her struggle on what to settle on for a website name. Much of the advice she’d been given didn’t resonate with her voice and brand. I encouraged her to go with a name that really spoke to her of the beauty of the Universe that she wanted to share with others on the website – so she did.
I was happy when she told me that because we emailed back and forth, it helped her to cut through the voices to find her soul again.
We all need someone(or many someone’s) who push us to go beyond our ‘normal’ and inspire us to be our best selves.
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There is a Secret Power in Creating Together
Many times the best ideas are uncovered when we talk with someone else who ‘gets us.’ I’ve experienced this when I talk my book ideas over with my husband or with writers in a Facebook group I’m a part of.
Recently I began reading a book that talks about the power of working with another person as a creative pair. Joshua Wolk Shenk, in his book Powers of Two: How Relationships Drive Creativity, gives examples of famous people who have created amazing innovation because of working together. People like Steve Jobs and Steve Wozniak when they created
There are many well-known creative pairs: like Steve Jobs and Steve Wozniak when they created Apple. Or John Lennon and Paul McCartney when they started the band The Beatles. Even C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien inspired each other to write their popular books The Chronicles of Narnia Complete 7-Book Collection with Bonus Book: Boxen and The Hobbit and the Lord of the Rings (the Hobbit / the Fellowship of the Ring / the Two Towers /.
Creating closely with someone else helps you:
- to ‘get’ someone else
- develop even more creative ideas
- enhance and appreciate each others strengths
Other times when I’ve discovered the secret power of creative pairs has been when I’ve had the privilege of interviewing other storytellers. Just this past week as I was interviewing romance author Ruth Ann Nordin, we had a moment where we helped solve one another’s problem, by giving each other creative ideas.
I love it when that happens 🙂
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Be Bold. Make That One Insane Move…
It’s risky to step out into something that’s new – especially when you’re unsure of the outcome.
It’s much easier to stay where it’s comfortable, where life is easier and where there’s little risk.
But without stepping out into that new thing that your instincts are urging you to try, you’ll stay where you are. You might regret not jumping into the deep end.
Whether it’s writing that new book, creating that new course, or collaborating with another creative, don’t wait. Step in and go for it.
Stop listening to the critic inside you – or around you – that is trying to get you to stop stepping into your next level.
Choose instead to boldly make that one insane move that will catapult you into a new crescendo of creativity.
You won’t regret it.
Do you have a new creative idea that you’re hesitating on? What’s holding you back? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments – let’s encourage each other 😉
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